What is a human design relationship reading?
When two human design charts come together, the energetics between two people can be more easily seen/explained and understood. Yes, we are individuals, we each have our own stuff. However, some aspects of our energy are lit up by different people's energies in different ways. Feel that extra exciting spark with someone that maybe will become a new best friend or future partner, you may have a lot of electromagnetic connections.
Some electromagnetic connections can feel amazing, like they are two halves of a whole.
Some electromagnetic connections can feel like polar opposites in a way that could cause some friction or tension, but seen in a new light can allow each person to play to their strengths and see the beauty of the connection.
We can also have kindred feeling energy, that same samey feeling where you just get the other person and no explanation needs to happen.
Our friends, partners and families can influence us in beautiful ways and vice versa.
Like much of human design, it doesn't necessarily tell you something you haven't thought already. It most likely will just affirm or confirm something that you've thought or felt but maybe never found the words for. Maybe something you acknowledge about yourself but it feels so out of the norm you actually deny it. Maybe conditioning is leading the way and causing you to try to be more like your partner when it is better to be just like... yourself!
The language I use is a blend of traditional human design and Quantum Human Design as created by Karen Curry Parker (who spent time in sound labs actually analyzing the higher vibration options of different names for each of the types/profiles/centers/gates etc.)
Human design is not a labeling system though and it doesn't take in to account lived experience. It doesn't know what stage of life we are in, if we have young children, if we have food allergies, or hormonal shifts or have recently lost or job or moved across the country.
It is more like a blueprint or an electrical schematic. It explains mechanics, in a tool based way. It doesn't tell you how or who you should be and I do my best to refrain from using words like should, always, never or any other absolutes.
We get to make our choices, human design can just help us to understand ourselves and our partners better to make better choices.
One of my favorite aspects of human design is learning about the differences between people. Knowing in a very concrete way how people operate differently has allowed me to have so much more compassion, less judgment and far greater understanding of what it means to be a human.
On the basic level reading, some of the big sweeping messages sometimes don't feel like they make as much sense. All charts have conundrums, and some have more than others! Like wanting to be alone a lot and really needing other people see us and hear us and help us process our experience. Some of us want to move really fast and get a lot done, but our decision making process needs to actually slow down and be given time and space.
Some of us want to move slow, but can make super fast gut reaction decisions and just instantly "know" things.
Some people need consistent schedules, it is good for them and aligned. Others need variety and doing the same thing all the time for them will feel like death. It is good for them to have variety, to not do the same thing all the time, to be flexible and not abide by a strict schedule. And guess what, some people have both those energies! They create a channel and when a couple comes together and one has one and the other has the other, it can be really helpful to understand on a fundamental level that the other person needs to operate differently. It isn't so much a want as a way of operating in alignment that is healthy.
We can all try to force ourselves to operate in ways that wear us out, drain our energy and compromise the integrity of our system.
Human design is a tool that helps find the ways to realign to feel amazing and thrive.
It has been life changing for me, and foundational in my partner and I understanding each other in a way we have never experienced in partnership before.
If you're interested in being able to understand yourself and your partner more deeply, a human design relationship reading might be an amazing tool for you.
In these initial readings, it will not include everything I know and see in your charts, but will include highlights of your types, authorities, profiles, centers, open center themes for the composite chart and electromagnetic channels, notable gates.
Gates of the throat and sacral center may also be highlighted.
*Human Design relationship readings are not done in a way that says whether or not you "should" or "shouldn't" be with someone. The chart may look like it would be a good match, but lived experience, emotional immaturity and an unhealthy expression of the energy may make a terrible relationship. And a chart may look like there isn't much juiciness in the connection, but if both people are living out a healthy optimized expression, they could have a most amazing relationship. It is not a predictive tool and it is not a labeling tool to box anyone in.
My hope is that it brings a deepness of authenticity and understanding to each person so they may feel empowered to show up as themselves.
Please let me know if you have any questions!
